When you set a goal for yourself, know that it begins with you heart, not your head. Be a little whimsical. Your daydreams are creative visualizations that help you create your new reality, the life you wish to manifest. You want to focus on where you’re headed, not where you have been.
Opportunity Will Present Itself When You are Ready for It
Set reasonable expectations for yourself. If you have difficulty starting your goal, or making progress toward achieving it, take an honest look at your actions. A universal truth is that you won’t be given greater opportunities until you have conquered the tasks that you are currently responsible for. If you fail to perform your current responsibilities and tasks successfully, you will likely delay future success. You don’t need to escape your current circumstances to experience new ones, as your future doesn’t exist yet. Attack those things that are most important and then delegate or eliminate the rest, so you can focus your energies. It’s been said, “Do what you have to do, so you can do what you want to do.” Those are powerful words, and right on target.
Take Bold Action to Achieve Your Goal
As you know by now, wishful thinking won’t manifest your dreams. But taking bold action will. Realize that your resources are unlimited. Since your brain acts as either an advocate or a limitation, consciously program your brain to act as your advocate. Any limitations you perceive yourself to have, you will believe to be true, make them part of your story, and live up to them. Your life will remain in its current state, only as long as you wish it to.
Begin by envisioning your life as a blank canvas. You get to control the brush strokes, as you paint your canvas. You create the imagery and colors of your life.
Increase Your Self Awareness of Your Behaviors and Thoughts
Identify what isn’t working in your life, and eliminate it. Align your values and purpose with your goals. Everything you do has meaning. Increase your self awareness: pay attention to behaviors, habits and thought patterns that sabotage your success. You are either moving toward your goal, away from your goal, or you’re simply living in neutral, not really getting anywhere. Recognize any belief systems that get in your way. Use the flip the switch technique to disconnect from negative thoughts or emotions. Choose a lighter or better feeling thought to move away from negativity.
Focus on Where You Want to Go, Not Where You Have Been
So what will you do this day to work on your goals? Having clarity on what you wish to achieve is important, but you won’t get any closer if you don’t move to the next step and begin taking action. Your actions and thoughts should be focused on the life you envision for yourself, not where you have been.
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Dr. Anthony,
First time hearing this train of thought regarding Self-Improvement.
Truly,mind shattering to think that I have spent so much money
and time striving for self-improvement and really short circuiting the process.
Do appreciate this PDF, The Disease of Self-Improvement, I am going to apply this thinking to my life.
Thanking You,
Sincerely,
James
Isn’t it interesting: something we don’t like may happen, maybe it lasts for 5 or 10 minutes.
However, we keep thinking about it time and time again, maybe even for the rest of our life (it is then called a trauma).
When we understand that, we will be more than willing to live on the here & now, because this is where life is happening.
Thank you for sharing this post! It reminds me of when one of my mentors would often say, “The Teacher will appear when the Student is ready”. How true!
Just by focusing on what I want has drastically changed what I’m getting. What I used to do was *try* to focus on what I wanted but was continually reminded of what I did before…which was what I didn’t want. This wasn’t useful for me as, at the time, the emotional charge was greater for what I didn’t want.
Changed my life.
I’ve noted to read this page daily until it’s in my “easily accessible lexicon” at any moment.
Thank you!
Matthew