Embracing the Dark Side

August 19th, 2008 2 Comments

Don’t judge yourself for having the thought or feeling, or feel like you’re less than whole for having the feeling. This process should lead you to the place where you ask yourself, “Does this feeling serve me? Would I rather hold on to this, or would I rather be free of it?”

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Get Over It Already

August 18th, 2008 No Comments

In previous posts I’ve explored different ideas on how our egos actually do a couple of things for us.  First, the ego provides protection.  It keeps us from doing things that could harm us.  Yes, the ego can be a good thing.

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You Get What You Expect

July 30th, 2008 3 Comments

Even though we might be unaware of the unconscious signals we send, tone of voice, facial expression, touch, and posture all communicate expectations.

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Keys to Having Confidence

July 28th, 2008 1 Comment

How long should you commit yourself to reach your goals? Until you reach them. When you are committed, nothing can stop you, you don’t waiver and you don’t lose your focus.

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Narrow Margin of Failure

July 17th, 2008 1 Comment

Such a narrow margin, such a tiny margin between the stability of a strong building and the failure of a tumbling building, and I thought to myself – how similar this it to our own lives. There is such a small margin sometimes between success and failure.

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